Breakups are hard to deal with, even if it isn't your own, especially when both parties involved in the breakup are close friends of yours. Well, that's what Vivian, I and many of our close friends are going thru right now. As friends, we can only help out so much, and the rest has to be carried out by him and her themselves. There isn't a "right" way to breakup; we can only hope for less pain and sufferings for them.