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Monday, April 24, 2006

Taipei

For the third time in four months, I am back in Taipei again.
The weather here is muggier than last time I was here, cloudy with threat of shower.
I will only be here for 4 days, that's not sufficient time to taste all the tasties, but I will try my best stomache whatever comes my way...

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Thursday, April 13, 2006

Healthy Dose of Bitching

Life needs a healthy dose of bitching from time to time.

I was complaining about the crappy weather we were getting these days, and look what happened today?! Sunny, warm and finally feels like a California spring day!

Despite the weather report still showing:

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Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Chinese-American

Being born in China and spent most of my life in US, similar to many other Chinese-Americans, the two utterly different cultures are constantly mix-n-matching and taking turns to dictate my behaviors. Spending a year in Shanghai and getting exposed to the new age Shanghai-Chinese culture only made the matter worse. Upon moments like this, I often regret that I lack the know-how to put my feeling in words.

That’s why when I read other people’s writing that accurately and oh so elegantly describe what I have always wanted to express, my eyes moist and I quickly copy and paste their text to my blog. Eric is a Chinese-American friend of mine living in Shanghai, aside being a Shanghai party prince, hair saloon guru, he is also quite a writer. Check out more of his legendary depiction of the Shanghai party scenes at his site: www.SushiPanda.com

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I have been here for two and half years, and it felt like for the first time, I was listening in on how this other sub-segment of foreigners really felt. I
couldn't be a part of this discussion. I didn't feel like defending these heinous (italics indicating sarcasm) Chinese practices, but no way in hell was I going to join in on the fun either.

In many ways, I can appreciate the culture shock that these guys feel. Theresa lamented: "I don't want to be THAT American girl, you know. The one who comes in and complains and doesn't make an effort to reach out. I'm really trying."

I thought about what she was saying, and I'm sure she was. And my thoughts wandered to these other co-workers who had now been introduced to my circle of pals. My wonderful friends who don't think twice about taking off their shoes, who burp at will but still grimace when the taxi driver hawks a loogey, who freely dip their chopsticks into the bubbling hot-pot of goodness, who always want a clean table before we sit down. These things are second nature to me; some of them are embedded in me as a Chinese-American, and some things cannot be stripped away from me as an American-Chinese. And while I've poked fun and taken swipes at locals here in previous posts, the fact remains that I chose to came here on my own, and as such I vigilently maintain an open mind and hesitate to criticize, unless phlegm lands on my shoes. I'm proud of the people here. When folks like Theresa come to visit and are totally lost, there are always co-workers who sacrifice their weekends and evenings to take them to the same old Bund, the same old Jade Garden, the same old Xiangyang market, the same old DVD stops. And they do this without complaint. I have a feeling my fellow citizens back in the States would be hard pressed to do this if the situation were reversed.

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Crappy Weather

Raining ForcastedWe have a situation here in California these days. Despite it’s already mid-April, the rain shows no sign of stopping.

My backyard is flooded, there are now more mud than grass; nasty snails and slugs all came out of their holes and “rain-bathing” on my patio and driveway. If you are not careful, you will hear crisp “Cra-a-ack!”, the sound of the snail’s shell shattering under your feet...

What happened to the sunny California weather? We have paid a large premium to live in this state largely because of the sunny weather, I am began to feel like being riped off.

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  • Rain rain go away
    Come again another day
    Jiaying wants to go out and play...

    I hate this rainy weather too. Still can't start our spring activities yet...

    By Blogger Vivian Chen 陳茜薇, @ 4/13/2006 3:19 AM  

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Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Southwest Blue

7:08am:
In my sixth gear, flew down southbound 101 on my way to the San Jose airport, I had to catch my 8am Southwest flight to Orange County visiting customers. Nervous as hell, fearing the flight will leave without me.

7:09am:
I dialed Southwest customer service, hoping they can check me in over the phone (wishful thinking in a desperate moment)

My conversation with Southwest airline agent:
Southwest: How may I help you?
Jiaying: I have 8am flight #2339 to catch but am running a little behind, can you check me in?
Southwest: Haha! Yes, I can’t
Jiaying: ... …
(Yes? And can’t? Is she trying to be cute? Make up your flipping mind!)
Southwest: Go to the gate, the agent there will be able to help you
Jiaying: Thanks a lot, you've been very helpful

7:25am:
Parked my car, ran to the terminal and realized the check-in line extended all the way into the parking structure. There is no way I can make my flight.

7:29am:
Called my CTMG travel agent, she re-booked me on another flight at 8:25am. Whewww!

I HATE Southwest, I detest them with a passion!
I HATE the fact that Southwest doesn’t have assigned seats, instead you are assigned a boarding zone, and somehow I am always ended up in Zone-C, the last boarding group.
I HATE their flight attendants’ stale jokes, such a nuisance!

I swear, if Southwest becomes the last airline on Earth, I will probably opt for Amtrak or Greyhound bus.

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  • you are deserved that, because you are always running late. :)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/12/2006 1:19 PM  

  • someone who knows me well!! :)

    By Blogger Jiaying, @ 4/12/2006 1:27 PM  

  • Haha, I feel the same way too. For someone who always shows up at the last minute, who always hope the plane would get delayed for some mysterious reason, I just feel like saying, "Sir, your nervousness hasn't taught you enough lesson yet..."

    And that shows why I am not in custmer service any more... ^_^

    But seriously, I witnessed Jiaying been the last passenger for several flights already, literally, the very LAST. Just hope he'd plan ahead and don't rush himself...

    By Blogger Vivian Chen 陳茜薇, @ 4/13/2006 3:09 AM  

  • bb, you will pay dearly for this!!! :-P

    By Blogger Jiaying, @ 4/13/2006 3:11 AM  

  • well, once check in your luggage, they can't take off without you. They'd have to identify your luggage, drag it out of the storage then take off. So you will have some time to wonder around, pick your nose, leisurely walk to the gate... :)

    By Blogger Jiaying, @ 4/13/2006 3:12 AM  

  • Exactly, the time between you check your luggage and boarding your flight, is really for picking your nose, and checking out chicks, NOT for running through the whole terminal thinking Gosh I earned some extra minutes...

    By Blogger Vivian Chen 陳茜薇, @ 4/13/2006 3:15 AM  

  • I fully agreed with Vivian.
    You are deserved that.
    You sould hate yourself and really need to change your behaviours, because that not only made you missed flights but also will have some safe problems by rushing.
    A fully-grown man sould know how to plan ahead his time.
    It is time to think about this.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/15/2006 2:31 PM  

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Monday, April 10, 2006

Sam大叔

可恶的Sam大叔!!
我辛辛苦苦赚来的血汗钱,他毫不客气的就拿走了一大块!
很想找人海扁他一顿!

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Sunday, April 09, 2006

Touched

Our usual crew of friends stopped by our place last night unexpectly. Knowing that I didn't want to celebrate my BDay this year, they kept it low key. No birthday songs and no candles on the cake. I did receives nice thoughtful gifts, tasty Blackforest cake and warm hugs.

Just what I needed! Thanx guys!

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Rain...

When is this rain ever gonna stop!?
this is California, we should be showering in warm sunshine, instead of this wet drops...

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Thursday, April 06, 2006

Duo Forte

It is utterly depressing to know that officially I only have 365 more days left before that big dreadful 30 years old mark. For the longest time, I didn’t even believe life existed after 30... Crazy! I am telling you, this is crazy!

On the other front, today is definitely a day worth celebrating, say hello to Duo Forte!

Ok, it is not exactly formed yet, but its corporate application submitted, the EIN for the entity applied, and the domain names (
www.DuoForte.com & www.DuoFortes.com) secured.

Vivian and I have big plans our very first company, and the actions are already in motion...

Shhh-hh-h... Just watch...

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  • First of all, Happy Birthday my love! Don't worry about getting old, how many times do I have to tell you that 男人越老越值錢?

    As for our Duo Forte, Inc., that's just gonna be another adventure we dive into together, hand in hand. Life can only be worthwhile if you have a dream, and we dream big...

    By Blogger Vivian Chen 陳茜薇, @ 4/06/2006 3:44 AM  

  • Duo Forte? what does the company do?

    confused!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/06/2006 1:40 PM  

  • :-) it makes money!

    By Blogger Jiaying, @ 4/06/2006 1:51 PM  

  • Congratulations!
    Best wishes to my dearest babies.
    mom

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/07/2006 5:47 AM  

  • 这位真是你妈妈吗? 还是有人在搞怪?

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/08/2006 6:12 PM  

  • 应该是俺老妈啦。。。:-)

    By Blogger Jiaying, @ 4/08/2006 9:06 PM  

  • 很难得, 她那么一个朴实无华的女人.你要是有个弟弟或妹妹什么就更好了.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/09/2006 7:00 PM  

  • 哎哟!这位很了解我家哦,是谁呀?

    By Blogger Jiaying, @ 4/10/2006 12:24 AM  

  • your chinese is pretty good. i could not believe you grew up in US. even better than me!:)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, @ 4/12/2006 1:50 PM  

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Wednesday, April 05, 2006

01:02:03:04:05:06

That's right folks, this won't happen again for another 100 years! (big deal you might scoff...)

01:02:03:04:05:06
(01:02:03am, 04/05/2006)

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Monday, April 03, 2006

Stale Yahoo!

Yahoo! Is rolling out it new online map system, and guess what? It looks exactly like that of Google Maps!

Can we say lack of creativity?!??! Shame on Yahoo!

By frankly, the live traffic feature on Yahoo! Maps is pretty cool.

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Vegas the Long Way...

Wynn hotel, Las VegasVivian and I just got back home after spending the last three days in Vegas. We drove there this time, which was a 1080 miles round trip. Although it was a bit tiring, we enjoyed the convenient of having a car while in Vegas.

That was my 20th or 30th trip to Las Vegas, but it was the first time for me to go there without doing any gambling!! That’s right! I didn’t shell out any money for Blackjack, didn’t sweat over cards on the Pai Gow table, didn’t mark up the score sheet for Baccratt, and didn’t spend a cent on slots!!

There is a first time for everything!

(See pictures from the trip)

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